Age is Just a Number

 

There was a time when I thought getting older meant gradually making my world smaller.

Fewer adventures.  Fewer new experiences.  Fewer possibilities.  And then I began noticing something. Some of the most interesting people I know are well beyond 70. They are learning new things. Falling in love with new ideas. Starting businesses. Taking up painting. Traveling. Making new friends. Laughing harder. Asking better questions.

They aren't pretending they're 40. They simply aren't letting the number tell them what they can no longer be. Maybe age isn't the destination. Maybe it's the perspective.

As you increase your decades, you have something you didn't have at 25:

Perspective.  You've lived through things.  You've made mistakes. You've experienced loss. You've celebrated victories. You've changed careers, raised families, built friendships, said goodbye to people you loved and discovered things about yourself you couldn't possibly have known when you were younger.  That's not a limitation. That’s a remarkable collection of life experience.

I think that's where the phrase “age is just a number” becomes important.  Not because the number doesn't matter. It does. Our bodies change. Our energy may change. Our priorities change. We may have to adapt in ways we didn't anticipate.

It doesn't mean ignoring age. It means refusing to let age become an identity. You’re not “just an old person. “You’re a person who happens to have lived longer. And those years have given you something extraordinary: MORE!

More memories.

More wisdom.

More perspective.

More people you've loved.

More lessons learned.

And, potentially, more appreciation for the moments that matter.

You don't have to be young to have a future.

 

 
Char Schuster